What do you want?

You gotta know what you want, I mean otherwise, you're just gonna be a chicken runnin around w/it's head cut off. So what do you want? It's a simple question, yet so many people can't really give a straight answer. Maybe you should take some time and figure that out. I mean are you ready for or want a serious relationship? Or do you just want to get some ass and move on? As my boy Ari would say, "Hit it and acquit it!" You gotta know what's up with yourself before someone else will. Once you know what you want you'll have a much better path to obtaining your heart or in most cases, penis' desire! Be your own GPS system, input the coordinates, lock in the target and throw down the HAMMER baby!

If you want tail, don't go for the hunnies that are looking for more, you aren't matching up...Find someone that is gonna match up with you. Obviously, telling a girl you just want sex might be a turn off, so I'm not saying just come out with that. However, I do think its a good idea to be upfront and honest. Let someone know what you are looking for or maybe not looking for. If you aren't really in the relationship mode, then this is the golden line to say:

"I really like to enjoy someone's company and see where things go. No pressure ya know, usually the best things happen when you aren't looking for them. Time is the most important thing to me, I don't want to waste anyone's time or mine, so I like to be upfront about things. And I'm hoping we are both mature adults and if we hit it off and other things happen, then they happen."

MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!! Telling you MONEY Fellas!!

Remember, it's the impression you give someone and the presentation of what you are saying, which is a reflection of what you want. It's not lying for the lady audience (they want to bone just as bad fellas). It's just like women don't want to give the impression they are easy or slutty, but they want it just as bad, in most cases worse. Don't be shy, tell people what you want, just be a little clever about it guys. Again, COMMON SENSE, if it's not there, don't ever force it, patience pays off...