Expectations

Expectations?

Don't have expectations, I mean, just cuz you are paying doesn't mean you are tagging. Be ready to pay, but don't be ready to unload a load fellas. It's just part of the process, it sucks but it's just the way it is. You pay and eventually hope to tag! Nah, really, keeping expectations in check is very important. That way you won't get too bent out of shape. Just be ready to go with the flow and enjoy someones company. Now obviously, you have to temper her expectations as well. I mean you don't know this person, so no need to take her to Ruth Chris, I mean we aren't going to MceeeD's either, but someplace in between, Cheesecake or someplace cozy and nice, maybe unknown.

I used to have high expectations for others because I hold myself to high expectations. However, after getting throttled by the first psycho girlfriend, I realized, you have expectations for yourself and you let others set what you should expect from them. That takes time, but it'll work in the end.

So even out and about, if you hollar, don't have an expectation, just try to have fun with it. Really it's a game, so play it like one. Have fun with it...life's too short to worry about some chick you don't know blowing you off...FUCKKKKKKKK HER or FUCK HER!! That's the motto baby! HOLLA!

What do you want?

You gotta know what you want, I mean otherwise, you're just gonna be a chicken runnin around w/it's head cut off. So what do you want? It's a simple question, yet so many people can't really give a straight answer. Maybe you should take some time and figure that out. I mean are you ready for or want a serious relationship? Or do you just want to get some ass and move on? As my boy Ari would say, "Hit it and acquit it!" You gotta know what's up with yourself before someone else will. Once you know what you want you'll have a much better path to obtaining your heart or in most cases, penis' desire! Be your own GPS system, input the coordinates, lock in the target and throw down the HAMMER baby!

If you want tail, don't go for the hunnies that are looking for more, you aren't matching up...Find someone that is gonna match up with you. Obviously, telling a girl you just want sex might be a turn off, so I'm not saying just come out with that. However, I do think its a good idea to be upfront and honest. Let someone know what you are looking for or maybe not looking for. If you aren't really in the relationship mode, then this is the golden line to say:

"I really like to enjoy someone's company and see where things go. No pressure ya know, usually the best things happen when you aren't looking for them. Time is the most important thing to me, I don't want to waste anyone's time or mine, so I like to be upfront about things. And I'm hoping we are both mature adults and if we hit it off and other things happen, then they happen."

MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!! Telling you MONEY Fellas!!

Remember, it's the impression you give someone and the presentation of what you are saying, which is a reflection of what you want. It's not lying for the lady audience (they want to bone just as bad fellas). It's just like women don't want to give the impression they are easy or slutty, but they want it just as bad, in most cases worse. Don't be shy, tell people what you want, just be a little clever about it guys. Again, COMMON SENSE, if it's not there, don't ever force it, patience pays off...