Expectations?
Don't have expectations, I mean, just cuz you are paying doesn't mean you are tagging. Be ready to pay, but don't be ready to unload a load fellas. It's just part of the process, it sucks but it's just the way it is. You pay and eventually hope to tag! Nah, really, keeping expectations in check is very important. That way you won't get too bent out of shape. Just be ready to go with the flow and enjoy someones company. Now obviously, you have to temper her expectations as well. I mean you don't know this person, so no need to take her to Ruth Chris, I mean we aren't going to MceeeD's either, but someplace in between, Cheesecake or someplace cozy and nice, maybe unknown.
I used to have high expectations for others because I hold myself to high expectations. However, after getting throttled by the first psycho girlfriend, I realized, you have expectations for yourself and you let others set what you should expect from them. That takes time, but it'll work in the end.
So even out and about, if you hollar, don't have an expectation, just try to have fun with it. Really it's a game, so play it like one. Have fun with it...life's too short to worry about some chick you don't know blowing you off...FUCKKKKKKKK HER or FUCK HER!! That's the motto baby! HOLLA!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Monday, August 4, 2008
What do you want?
You gotta know what you want, I mean otherwise, you're just gonna be a chicken runnin around w/it's head cut off. So what do you want? It's a simple question, yet so many people can't really give a straight answer. Maybe you should take some time and figure that out. I mean are you ready for or want a serious relationship? Or do you just want to get some ass and move on? As my boy Ari would say, "Hit it and acquit it!" You gotta know what's up with yourself before someone else will. Once you know what you want you'll have a much better path to obtaining your heart or in most cases, penis' desire! Be your own GPS system, input the coordinates, lock in the target and throw down the HAMMER baby!
If you want tail, don't go for the hunnies that are looking for more, you aren't matching up...Find someone that is gonna match up with you. Obviously, telling a girl you just want sex might be a turn off, so I'm not saying just come out with that. However, I do think its a good idea to be upfront and honest. Let someone know what you are looking for or maybe not looking for. If you aren't really in the relationship mode, then this is the golden line to say:
"I really like to enjoy someone's company and see where things go. No pressure ya know, usually the best things happen when you aren't looking for them. Time is the most important thing to me, I don't want to waste anyone's time or mine, so I like to be upfront about things. And I'm hoping we are both mature adults and if we hit it off and other things happen, then they happen."
MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!! Telling you MONEY Fellas!!
Remember, it's the impression you give someone and the presentation of what you are saying, which is a reflection of what you want. It's not lying for the lady audience (they want to bone just as bad fellas). It's just like women don't want to give the impression they are easy or slutty, but they want it just as bad, in most cases worse. Don't be shy, tell people what you want, just be a little clever about it guys. Again, COMMON SENSE, if it's not there, don't ever force it, patience pays off...
If you want tail, don't go for the hunnies that are looking for more, you aren't matching up...Find someone that is gonna match up with you. Obviously, telling a girl you just want sex might be a turn off, so I'm not saying just come out with that. However, I do think its a good idea to be upfront and honest. Let someone know what you are looking for or maybe not looking for. If you aren't really in the relationship mode, then this is the golden line to say:
"I really like to enjoy someone's company and see where things go. No pressure ya know, usually the best things happen when you aren't looking for them. Time is the most important thing to me, I don't want to waste anyone's time or mine, so I like to be upfront about things. And I'm hoping we are both mature adults and if we hit it off and other things happen, then they happen."
MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!! Telling you MONEY Fellas!!
Remember, it's the impression you give someone and the presentation of what you are saying, which is a reflection of what you want. It's not lying for the lady audience (they want to bone just as bad fellas). It's just like women don't want to give the impression they are easy or slutty, but they want it just as bad, in most cases worse. Don't be shy, tell people what you want, just be a little clever about it guys. Again, COMMON SENSE, if it's not there, don't ever force it, patience pays off...
Thursday, July 31, 2008
BOLDNESS and CONFIDENCE
Sorry for the delay...was on vacation...even the love guru has to take a few days to CHILLLLLLLLLLLLLLL and rejuvenate...but I'm back baby..and back for all my boyz out there...Oh ya..ladies you can learn a lot too and probably help yourselves out as well!! :)
Approaching an attractive woman is a tough job. Women do not really understand how hard it can be, as they are always being the pursued. As the pursuer fear can not be shown. Can you imagine a lion going for a kill and being all timid and shy? NOPE! Women have this innate ability to smell out fear gentlemen, so men, mastering the art of hollaring is essential to success. The smell that lack of confidence like blood sucking wolves...they are beasts...you have to be a LION to conquer baby!
Seriously...just going up and saying Hi, how are you to a girl you are attracted to is a solid/confident gesture...No PICK UP LINES!
BE CONFIDENTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!! Why not you? My dad's always said...if someone else can do it, why can't you? What's wrong with you!? The answer is you are what's wrong with you. Be confident in yourself and of course always chill and use common sense to assess the situation you are in. As Robbie Schneider would say, "YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Don't you see those normal looking, sometimes, ehhh guys w/those hot ass chicks that you want to tag!? Hell ya you do, I do all the time, ok ok...default answer...MONEY!!!!!!!!! Bro's got the cash that's why he's tappin that fine ass rite?! HAHA..not always the case fellas, it's confidence...That retard just had the balls to go up and say what's up to that chick...Hot girls don't always get hit on as much as you think, too many guys are pussies or try lame pick-up lines on them, so they don't get the hits as much as you think. Let's go gettem!!
Be BOLD and Fearful!! Trust me it will pay off. Don't be stupid, but be bold. People like unique and confident people. Boldness shows confidence. Don't be afraid to take a chance, say what you think or feel. It's like making a turn when you are driving, if you hesitate, it's over, don't go...same thing with girls...JUST PUNCH IT BABY!!!!!!! Remember, all people, regardless of looks are attracted to confidence. Confidence doesn't mean arrogance in your looks or status, it just means being comfy with who you are as a person, looks included. The more comfy you are, the more comfy you will come across and people like to talk/do business with people they feel comfortable with. It's just like sales, talking to girls I tell ya.
Remember...you are always selling yourself...everyday at work, to your friends, to your family, to chicks...everything you do is a reflection on you, hence you are selling yourself...so don't be a cheap whore, but don't be an arrogant biotch either..just be chill and let the sale happen naturally. The best products sell on their own..and that's how you need to sell yourself to girls fellas.
Approaching an attractive woman is a tough job. Women do not really understand how hard it can be, as they are always being the pursued. As the pursuer fear can not be shown. Can you imagine a lion going for a kill and being all timid and shy? NOPE! Women have this innate ability to smell out fear gentlemen, so men, mastering the art of hollaring is essential to success. The smell that lack of confidence like blood sucking wolves...they are beasts...you have to be a LION to conquer baby!
Seriously...just going up and saying Hi, how are you to a girl you are attracted to is a solid/confident gesture...No PICK UP LINES!
BE CONFIDENTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!! Why not you? My dad's always said...if someone else can do it, why can't you? What's wrong with you!? The answer is you are what's wrong with you. Be confident in yourself and of course always chill and use common sense to assess the situation you are in. As Robbie Schneider would say, "YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Don't you see those normal looking, sometimes, ehhh guys w/those hot ass chicks that you want to tag!? Hell ya you do, I do all the time, ok ok...default answer...MONEY!!!!!!!!! Bro's got the cash that's why he's tappin that fine ass rite?! HAHA..not always the case fellas, it's confidence...That retard just had the balls to go up and say what's up to that chick...Hot girls don't always get hit on as much as you think, too many guys are pussies or try lame pick-up lines on them, so they don't get the hits as much as you think. Let's go gettem!!
Be BOLD and Fearful!! Trust me it will pay off. Don't be stupid, but be bold. People like unique and confident people. Boldness shows confidence. Don't be afraid to take a chance, say what you think or feel. It's like making a turn when you are driving, if you hesitate, it's over, don't go...same thing with girls...JUST PUNCH IT BABY!!!!!!! Remember, all people, regardless of looks are attracted to confidence. Confidence doesn't mean arrogance in your looks or status, it just means being comfy with who you are as a person, looks included. The more comfy you are, the more comfy you will come across and people like to talk/do business with people they feel comfortable with. It's just like sales, talking to girls I tell ya.
Remember...you are always selling yourself...everyday at work, to your friends, to your family, to chicks...everything you do is a reflection on you, hence you are selling yourself...so don't be a cheap whore, but don't be an arrogant biotch either..just be chill and let the sale happen naturally. The best products sell on their own..and that's how you need to sell yourself to girls fellas.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
SMILE
It's simple..people like happy people. Ummmmm...so SMILE! The more you smile the better for you personally and with the hunnies! People are attracted to fun and happy people. If you are posting it with your arms folded..that is not gonna fly. Would you want to talk to a hunni that looked like she was a biotch, nah...so don't just stand around. Be relaxed and SMILE! SMILE!! Make sure you are upbeat, giving out that positive vibe, not that obnoxious douchebag vibe, but just a very chill "I am here to hang w/my boys and just scope out the scene" vibe.
So in review...SMILE you dumbFUCK...it's not hard, it's simple...KEEP it simple and smile...it'll go a long way..trust me!
So in review...SMILE you dumbFUCK...it's not hard, it's simple...KEEP it simple and smile...it'll go a long way..trust me!
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
All about YOU!
Regardless of your nature, Lion or Mouse, there is plenty to learn...
Lion: King of the Jungle, in our case... P I M P !!!!!!!!
Mouse: A little rodent, in our case... a lil biotch or pansy !!!!!! Not that there's anything wrong with it!! Seinfeld fans!
First off, lets just focus on YOU!!!! If you don't got #1 taken care of you're screwed. It's all bout YOU. Trust me, in today's jungle, my pops always says, "If you don't have your own back, ain't no one got yours." Know who you are and know what you are worth (self-worth...will be discussed later). Now, I'm not saying be selfish, but it all starts with you. Having a good understand of yourself will go a long way in someone respecting you and you ultimately respecting yourself. As one of my good friends pops says, "RESPECT YOURSELF!" Easy moto, great to live by...if you follow that rule, not much can go wrong.
I'm not here to get you laid, well, dunno bout that! haha...Well most likely if you listen, that will happen!! It's bout feeling good about who you are and what you're doing...once you got that feeling, what others think is less important, and in-turn everything will be all good and more importantly the hunnies will flow like nectar.
If you don't feel you got it, how is someone else gonna feel you got it? That's right...you gotta have that inner belief in yourself, you can do it. Now I'm not saying be unrealistic, like no way my under 6ft ass can play in the NBA, or you're not gonna tag Cindy Crawford, so keep the expectations in check. No expectations is better, I mean...seriously...who can you expect things from? 1/2 of us can't even rely on ourselves, how can you have expectations for others? So take care of business on your side, and let the rest shake out how it will...always remember..be CHILLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chilling is the Key to Happiness as my good Japanese friend says.
I know..this is the boring stuff...but trust me, there is a method to the madness playas!
Next installment...it's coming...just CHILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOLLA!
Lion: King of the Jungle, in our case... P I M P !!!!!!!!
Mouse: A little rodent, in our case... a lil biotch or pansy !!!!!! Not that there's anything wrong with it!! Seinfeld fans!
First off, lets just focus on YOU!!!! If you don't got #1 taken care of you're screwed. It's all bout YOU. Trust me, in today's jungle, my pops always says, "If you don't have your own back, ain't no one got yours." Know who you are and know what you are worth (self-worth...will be discussed later). Now, I'm not saying be selfish, but it all starts with you. Having a good understand of yourself will go a long way in someone respecting you and you ultimately respecting yourself. As one of my good friends pops says, "RESPECT YOURSELF!" Easy moto, great to live by...if you follow that rule, not much can go wrong.
I'm not here to get you laid, well, dunno bout that! haha...Well most likely if you listen, that will happen!! It's bout feeling good about who you are and what you're doing...once you got that feeling, what others think is less important, and in-turn everything will be all good and more importantly the hunnies will flow like nectar.
If you don't feel you got it, how is someone else gonna feel you got it? That's right...you gotta have that inner belief in yourself, you can do it. Now I'm not saying be unrealistic, like no way my under 6ft ass can play in the NBA, or you're not gonna tag Cindy Crawford, so keep the expectations in check. No expectations is better, I mean...seriously...who can you expect things from? 1/2 of us can't even rely on ourselves, how can you have expectations for others? So take care of business on your side, and let the rest shake out how it will...always remember..be CHILLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chilling is the Key to Happiness as my good Japanese friend says.
I know..this is the boring stuff...but trust me, there is a method to the madness playas!
Next installment...it's coming...just CHILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOLLA!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Bringing the GAME ONLINE!!!!!!!!
Holla!
It's Game Time for everyone now! So I've been told by many of my friends I need to share my insight, little tid-bits, and experiences...oh there are plenty! So I said why not, it's time to set up the blog and help out. First installment is upcoming...for now...I leave you with a simple question...
Are you a Lion or a Mouse?
It's Game Time for everyone now! So I've been told by many of my friends I need to share my insight, little tid-bits, and experiences...oh there are plenty! So I said why not, it's time to set up the blog and help out. First installment is upcoming...for now...I leave you with a simple question...
Are you a Lion or a Mouse?
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